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Party for Two by Bruce Cadle

Tuesday, July 5th, 2011

Party for Two could easily be subtitled: “Recipes for Romance,” because author Bruce Cadle’s philosophy behind this book is about having a “date night” with your wife each week in order to keep romance alive. I love this idea! A large part of date night is planning and preparing a special meal to share together. In this case, the author is the chef, although his wife of 35 years, Valerie, often makes the dessert.

The 8 1/2′” X 11” book starts with the whole concept of Date Night.  Actually, one of the author’s children wrote the Foreword that explains how she and her brother had to stay in their rooms on date night. However, daughter Jennifer would sneak fro her room and tiptoe to the banister so she could listen to her parents.  This legacy inspired Jennifer and her husband to have a weekly Date Night, creating a wonderful tradition.

Part One discusses his concept of Date Night claiming: “Date Nights can reignite the flames of passion you used to feel. Date Nights are a proactive way to keep romance alive and focus on each other.” (p. 18). The author writes about how Date Nights are fun, fancy, easy and affordable, giving the reader plenty of food for thought, suggesting this is actually a lifestyle, since planning this weekly romantic evening influences your weekly shopping for food, date night clothes, a lovely serving dish, etc. As Cadle notes:

“Our date Night is so much a part of our marriage that it’s not just what we do every Friday night, it’s an essential part of who we are.  It is a celebration of our love.” (p. 25)

Part One also includes herbs & spices as well as food presentation, both important when making romantic recipes. The beginning of the book and Part One are the first 33 pages of the book and the rest of the book are the recipes, except for the Index at the end.

The recipes start with Sauces, Vinaigrettes & Dressings followed by Appetizers, Salads, Entrees, Pizzas & Paninis, Vegetables and Desserts. Since the idea behind Date Night is to have fun and to relax, the recipes are not complex, which I like.  And even though they are not all suitable to my vegetarian palate, there are enough recipes for me to explore.  For example, Cadle’s sautéed Spinach, grilled Portobello Mushrooms and Grilled Asparagus are simple to prepare.

Also, the Blueberry Parfait is something I would serve to my husband or guests, especially since I already have parfait glasses. I made the asparagus recipe over the holiday weekend. (See photo below Rosemary Caprese) But one recipe I know I already love, which is Rosemary Caprese, since we had a similar salad in Italy. Many recipes have Bruce’s personal comments, like the one below.

Author Bruce Cadle has created a wonderful idea with his Date Night romantic recipes. I plan to introduce this idea to my husband and convince him this is a great way to keep our marriage as delicious as the recipes!

P.S. For book purchase, recipe photos, how-to videos, tips, etc. you can go to www.datenightchef.com. Amazon is selling it for $16.39, a great price for re-starting romance!

Rosemary Caprese

From the author: Anything with a skewer is fun, and using fresh rosemary as skewers for this petite version of caprese salad makes a great Date Night presentation. You can make this several hours ahead of time, refrigerate until you’re ready to serve and then add oil and you are good to go!

4 ounces mozzarella (look for pearl or baby mozzarella balls)
4 rosemary sprigs
8 grape tomatoes
fresh basil
olive oil or Italian dressing
kosher salt
fresh cracked pepper

Remove the rosemary from all but the top two inches of all four sprigs to create skewers. Onto each (rosemary) skewer thread a mozzarella ball, a basil leaf and tomato: repeat. Drizzle with olive oil or Italian dressing. Sprinkle with kosher salt and freshly ground pepper. Garnish with additional basil.

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Over the holiday week-end, we ate outside. I made veggie kebobs and grilled green asparagus* from the Party for Two cookbook. Veggie kebob recipe coming soon in Kitchen Nutrition!

Grilled Asparagus (amid the veggie kebobs)

Author Cadle’s Comments: My favorite produce market offers both white and green asparagus for the same price. I almost always choose white because it makes for a beautiful presentation. (*I rarely find white asparagus. ellensue)

1/2 pound asparagus
olive oil
kosher salt
fresh cracked pepper
1/2 lemon, juiced

Cut off the woody bottom+ inch or two of the asparagus and discard. Toss the asparagus with olive oil until lightly coated. Sprinkle with salt and pepper. (I had no kosher salt, so I used sea salt. es)

Lay the asparagus diagonally across a medium-hot grill or grill pan. Cook for three minutes and roll the asparagus until the grill side is up. Cook for two more minutes or until the asparagus is sligtly tender.

Drizzle with lemon juice and serve.

+Alternately, you can snap off the ends, since they seem to snap off just where the woody part ends. (ellensue)

Falling in Love Again by Monica Morris, PhD

Friday, June 10th, 2011

I wish I had this book when I was navigating the dating scene after 30 years of marriage, which ended in a painful divorce.  Monica Morris, PhD would have been a big help! But for those of you who find yourself newly single, whether it is due to divorce, or if you are widowed, as the author Dr. Morris was after 40 years of a self-described good marriage, this is a must-read guide.

As the author notes in the preface: “Human beings thrive on love.” Of course, I had convinced myself that love of family and friends would be enough if I could not find a mate. After 13 years of being single, I had just about convinced myself that there were worse things than being single. And there were, but that was my “excuse” for not finding a mate.

This book will help you search for a new partner—if that is what you are seeking. The subtitle, “The Mature Woman’s Guide to Finding Romantic Fulfillment,” further defines the topics covered in the book. After explaining her own personal single situation, the author (who is a sociologist) launches into the various aspects of being single after a long relationship and gently guides us through our options.

The book is laced with ideas and guidelines, but the most important aspect, I think, is that Dr. Morris emphasizes confidence as the key to finding love again. Her list on page 2 sets the tone, noting that the confidence to be brave comes with the following:

  • having reasonable expectations
  • understanding the situation
  • understanding yourself
  • knowing you have done the best with what you have
  • knowing you are prepared
  • getting involved in the world
  • having something to say for yourself
  • knowing that what you want is “normal”
  • knowing you can look after yourself

Using herself as the guinea pig, Dr. Morris conducted research by dating many, many men and researching the whole world of what I call “singledom.” The chapters cover topics such as: personal ads and dating services, enriching your life while looking, to sleep with your date or not, and alternatives to romantic love.

I like the author’s no-nonsense approach to the idea of finding love as an older person. I was 65 when I met my second husband, and the road was bumpy because this book had not yet been written. Since I experienced much of what the author describes, it has an authentic ring for me and I think it will for you, as well. Her background in sociology provides added value to the research, especially the stories included of other women seeking mates. The book, in general, has a strong ring of validity.

The only area Dr. Morris did not cover was that of women who find themselves attracted to other women later in life.  I think this topic would be a great one for the author’s next book.

Falling in Love Again is published by Square One Publishers and sells for $14.95. Look for it in your favorite bookstore or from Amazon online (Click on link below.).

Also available from Noble.com and borders.com.

Trivia Note: When I first saw the topic, the title was so familiar. My (second) husband reminded me that it is from a song with the same title and the song was sung by Marlene Dietrich in 1929. Dietrich landed the breakthrough role of Lola-Lola, a cabaret singer who causes the downfall of a hitherto respected schoolmaster.

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