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Wisdom’s Game by Judi Thomases

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

With JOY as my onging theme for this website for 2010, I could not avoid reading and reviewing Wisdom’s Game: How to Change Life’s Pain into Joy. So I don’t think it was a coincidence that I purchased this book last June at my Douglass College Reunion when the author and I were part of the Author’s Corner. (I presented my children’s book A Tale from Tarpiluvka.)

Author Judi Thomases, as the back cover notes, is the founder of a women’s spiritual network for meditation, teaching, and personal development. In 1997, Judi began to hear the “voices” of her spirit guides who have guided her in healing and helping others.

Because I have read A Course in Miracles and am now reading The Disappearance of the Universe, Judi’s book fits right into my thoughts about why we suffer and how to find joy. Perhaps by listing a few of her previews before each chapter, you will begin to grasp how Thomases guides us to greater joy. The statements below are direct quotes:

Wisdom teaches us that, while temporary pain is normal, continual suffering over its cause isn’t necessary.  We can instantly change our thought to take things more lightly.

The struggle of growing is what life’s about. Enjoy it!

Use life to learn wisdom—of any type, but especially that of learning to be loving.  Value even the painful efforts as badges of the struggle toward enlightenment.

Pain and sorrow –the causes of fear- are necessary to prevent life on Earth from seeming like a pleasant but unreal dream.  They are also essential precursors to the most intense joy.

As I was typing these quotes, I realized that they are hard to believe. How can pain lead to joy? The answer to that is the three (easy) steps described in Chapter Eleven: sensing spirit’s presence, then overcoming skepticism to digest the teaching being given, and finally realizing that you are of the very same spiritual nature as your guides.

If you believe that all of us are divine and made in the image of the creator, by whatever name you call that, then this book will give you hope for the future, because the author notes that humanity is now in the stage of the overall creation in which the divine will reveal itself, bringing joy to us all.

This book may seem a little “far out” to many of you, but after reading it, I realized Thomases message of hope and joy is sincere and from her heart. The possibility of hope and joy are worth exploring!

Judi Thomases’ Wisdom’s Game is published by Cypress House. The cost is $12.95 and is available from Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble, and directly from Cypress House (800) 773-7782.




The Art of Hugging by William Cane

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

♥♥With Valentine’s Day only one day away, I thought this would be the perfect posting.♥♥

William Cane, touted as the world-famous kissing coach, has written a small but mighty book on hugging called The Art of Hugging. Based on a worldwide questionnaire, Cane explores why, where, and how to hug. One chapter is devoted to hugging techniques and dos and don’ts in many different countries.

Part One explores the “Hugging State of Mind,” including the origins of the word “hug,” which apparently is an old Norse verb hugga, meaning to comfort or soothe. The most interesting part of this section is the sex differences in hugging, that is, how men and women view hugging differently. A chart for men and another for women lists their reasons/preferences from one to 10.

Part Two is entitled “The Hugging Encyclopedia,” which describes a long list of the types of hugs, from The Bear Hug to the Family Hug to the Sexual Hug. Cane even includes holding hands and connecting physically while walking as hugs.

Part Three explores “The Hugging Technique,” that is, the best position for hugging, how to hug a baby, the best way to hug in a car, and what to do with your hands while hugging.

Whether you hug platonically, more physically, or sexually, after reading this small but powerful primer on hugging, I realize that hugging isn’t necessarily instinctive because many people are uncomfortable with hugging.  William Cane convinced me that hugging is truly an art, and this Valentine’s Day I plan to practice this art!

This book is published by St. Martin’s Press and costs $7.95. A great gift for someone you love who needs a little shove to start hugging!

P.S. Remember XOXOXOXO means hugs and kisses!

P.P.S. When I was single and Valentine’s Day was not a good day for me, I started celebrating V-Day, started by Eve Ensler, author of the Vagina Monologues. This day is to bring into focus the need to end violence against women and girls everywhere, which Eve and her staff and volunteers practice every day. Check out her website: www.VDay.org/home. Here is the logo:

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